This is all sounding very familiar to me, and I hope I can help. My 04 overheated at a stop light a couple of months ago. I pulled to the shoulder asap when the signal turned green and shut it down immediately (car was in limp mode by now) and got it towed home. I got a coolant system pressure checking kit, but only saw where I could pressurize the system at the Degas bottle near the firewall. When I pressurized the system at the bottle with the motor cold, there was a slight leak behind the bottle, so I changed it (battling that hose at the firewall is another story). Anyway, when I refilled the system and ran the engine, I eventually saw coolant leaking from somewhere to the rear of the engine in front of the transmission. (Like it has already been pointed out, coolant can and will run from the front of the engine underneath to the rear, having you look extensively there and scratching your head.) Anyway, what I did NOT know is that there is another coolant cap underneath a plastic cover at the
thermostat at the front of the engine. If you remove that cover you can pressurize your system there. Do that and I'll bet you will find your leak (coolant dye and black light can help). In my case (see attached pic) it was a plastic tube between
thermostat housing and the engine that was cracked. I finally had it towed to a mechanic and he had to remove the intake to replace the piece (though I daresay with patience and "holding your mouth just right" it could be done without removing the intake). Anyway, the car's been running nice and cool ever since even in this hot Texas weather. Hope this helps. BTW, if you find the leak at the
thermostat housing (a new one usually comes with a new
thermostat), I strongly suggest you replace this short connecting piece as well. Oh, and carefully watch where all the gaskets and rubber fittings are. You may have to purchase those separately. Good luck!