Papa bear

Both seat belts on my 2002 “RTROBRD” go under tension over our shoulders, which is annoying as we are constantly pulling them ahead to relieve tension on the side of our necks, which doesn’t really help!
Was there a stop feature on the shoulder belts when new? Is there a remedy?
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